For years, I battled addiction, shame, and broken identity. On October 2, 2021, I made the decision to get sober and completely rebuild my life. Through faith, discipline, and fitness, I help men rebuild their bodies, renew their minds, and take ownership of their lives.
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME. PHILIPPIANS 4:13•NO MAN IS TOO BROKEN FOR GOD TO REDEEM.•YOUR PAST DOES NOT DISQUALIFY YOU.•DISCIPLINE CREATES FREEDOM.•WHAT CHALLENGES THE BODY STRENGTHENS THE MIND.•THE MAN YOU ARE BECOMING IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR.•BODY. MIND. SPIRIT.•BUILT THROUGH DISCIPLINE. DRIVEN BY PURPOSE. ANCHORED IN FAITH.•I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHO STRENGTHENS ME. PHILIPPIANS 4:13•NO MAN IS TOO BROKEN FOR GOD TO REDEEM.•YOUR PAST DOES NOT DISQUALIFY YOU.•DISCIPLINE CREATES FREEDOM.•WHAT CHALLENGES THE BODY STRENGTHENS THE MIND.•THE MAN YOU ARE BECOMING IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR.•BODY. MIND. SPIRIT.•BUILT THROUGH DISCIPLINE. DRIVEN BY PURPOSE. ANCHORED IN FAITH.•
MEET MATT FLEMING
THE MAN BEHIND the rebuild.
My name is Matt Fleming, and I'm the founder of Redeemed Strength.
But before I was ever a coach, author, speaker, or a man with a mission, I was a man who had to fight for his life.
For years, I battled addiction, shame, broken identity, and the belief that maybe I was too far gone to ever become anything more. I know what it feels like to be stuck in cycles you hate but cannot seem to break. I know what it feels like to look in the mirror and not recognize the man looking back at you.
I also know what it feels like to finally get tired enough to change.
By the grace of God, my story did not end in addiction. On October 2nd, 2021, I made the decision to get sober and completely rebuild my life. Not just physically, but mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
It did not happen overnight. It did not happen by accident. It happened through faith, discipline, fitness, personal responsibility, and a relentless commitment to becoming the man God called me to be.
"I believe no man is too broken for God to redeem. I believe your past does not disqualify you. I believe discipline creates freedom."
Matt Fleming
MY STORY
I WASN'T ALWAYS THE MAN GOD CALLED ME TO BE.
For years, I battled addiction, shame, and broken identity. I know what it feels like to be stuck in cycles you hate but cannot seem to break. This is how God rebuilt me from the inside out.
THE STRUGGLE
ADDICTION, SHAME, AND BROKEN IDENTITY
The substance may look different, but the pattern is often the same. Numbing. Escaping. Seeking comfort. Trying to fill something internally with something external.
I carried the pain for years, the broken identity, and the path of drug and alcohol abuse that nearly destroyed my life.
2021
THE DECISION
By the grace of God, my story did not end in addiction. There comes a point when the pain of remaining the same becomes greater than the pain of change, and that is when change finally becomes possible.
October 2nd, 2021. The day I chose to get sober and rebuild everything.
THE REBUILD
FAITH, DISCIPLINE, AND FITNESS
Every workout was teaching me how to keep promises to myself. Every hard set, every early morning, every time I chose discipline over comfort, I was becoming someone different.
It showed me how to suffer with purpose instead of suffering without direction.
REDEEMED STRENGTH
A MOVEMENT FOR MEN
My mission is simple. To help men become stronger physically, mentally, and spiritually so they can lead themselves, their families, and their lives with purpose.
Real transformation has to go deeper than the surface. It's about healing, renewing your mind, and becoming a different man from the inside out.
YOU RULE THE WAY
THE BOOK
I do not share my story because I am proud of who I used to be. I share it because I know there is someone out there who feels stuck, ashamed, or lost, and they need to know that their story is not over.
With God, discipline, and the willingness to do the hard work, your life can become something completely different.
$19.95 | 164 Pages
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THE BOOK
THE BOOK THAT REBUILT A MAN.
You Rule The Way
A raw story of addiction, redemption, discipline, and rebuilding a life through faith.
You Rule The Way is the real and raw truth about my life, where I came from, what I went through, and what it took for God to rebuild me from the inside out.
In this book, I open up about the struggles I faced growing up, the pain I carried for years, the broken identity I lived with, and the path of drug and alcohol abuse that nearly destroyed my life. I share the choices I made, the consequences that came with those choices, and the moments where I had to finally stop blaming everything around me, look in the mirror, and take responsibility for the man I had become.
But this book is not just about addiction, and it's not just about the darkness I walked through. It's about what happens when a man gets tired of running, surrenders his life to God, and decides that no matter how far he has fallen, he is still willing to fight for the life he was created to live.
Throughout these pages, I share the things I have done to better myself as a man mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I talk about faith, discipline, fitness, mindset, personal responsibility, and the daily work it takes to rebuild your identity and become someone different, because there comes a point when the pain of remaining the same becomes greater than the pain of change, and that is when change finally becomes possible.
I also believe that nothing you have been through has to be wasted. The pain, the mistakes, the heartbreak, the addiction, the shame, and the seasons you thought would break you can all become part of the purpose God uses to rebuild you and reach other people through you. That does not mean the pain was good, but it does mean God can use it for good when you are willing to surrender it, learn from it, and let it shape you into the person He called you to be.
I do not share my story because I am proud of who I used to be. I share it because I know there is someone out there who feels stuck, ashamed, lost, or too far gone, and they need to know that their story is not over.
Your past does not have to define you. Your mistakes do not have to disqualify you. Your lowest moments do not have to become the place where your life ends. With God, discipline, and the willingness to do the hard work, your life can become something completely different.
That is what this book is about: taking what was meant to destroy you and allowing God to use it to build you, strengthen you, and turn your pain into purpose.
Change doesn't come from knowing what to do. It comes from executing consistently.
Most men aren't lacking information... They're lacking discipline, structure, and accountability.
If you're tired of starting over, if you're done making excuses, and you know you're capable of more but keep falling short... I'll help you close that gap.
Through faith, fitness, discipline, accountability, and a structured plan I help men become the version of themselves God intended them to be.
No shortcuts. No hand-holding. Just real work and real results.
If you're ready to go all in... I'm ready to meet you there.
Fitness became one of the biggest tools God used to rebuild me. It gave me structure. It taught me discipline. It helped me build confidence, self-respect, and belief in myself again. It showed me how to suffer with purpose instead of suffering without direction.
Getting in shape was never just about the body, it was about identity. Every workout was teaching me how to keep promises to myself. Every hard set, every early morning, every time I chose discipline over comfort, I was becoming someone different. You are not just building muscle, you are building evidence.
Limited intakes per quarter. Brief application by call.
"What challenges the body, strengthens the mind."
Matt Fleming
TESTIMONIALS
LIVES CHANGED.
Josie and Alfredo Limon
★★★★★
“We can't fully express the impact Matt Fleming has had on our lives. During one of the darkest and most debilitating times in Josie's life, when depression felt overwhelming and isolating, she reached out to Matt for help. What started as a simple request for weight training became something far more meaningful.”
Matt met her with understanding, care, and compassion. When he shared that he had also faced his own struggles with mental health and addiction, his honesty and empathy created a powerful bond built on trust, respect, and a shared understanding of life's challenges.
Through his guidance, Josie began to see that she was not alone and that she could overcome her depression. Matt didn't just train her physically; he helped restore her mentally and emotionally.
Matt is more than a trainer. He is a healer, a mentor, and a constant source of inspiration with enduring faith. What he did for us was life-changing, and we will forever be grateful.
Melissa Gautier
Founder, Sidewalk Sherpas
★★★★★
“I met Matt a few years ago when he guided me into what was a new journey for me of strength training. I came into this new world as a woman in her late forties, with no experience, stepping into what I considered a hyper-masculine environment where I felt very much out of place. Matt was the perfect guide for that transition.”
What sets Matt apart is his mastery of his craft. He has the rare ability to break down complex ideas into something simple and understandable, without losing depth. He didn't just teach me how to lift, he helped me understand how my body works as a whole.
Matt's gift isn't just his strength, it's his ability to show others that strength is built, not given. He allows people to borrow his belief in them until they develop their own.
That message changes people. And it's why his impact will extend far beyond the individuals he's trained. This book is not just a story, it's an invitation to see what's possible.
Dr. Ray Avila
★★★★★
“I've had several personal trainers for the past 20 years. All of them good, but my experience with Matt was not only productive for strength and conditioning, it was a lifelong learning lesson on physical fitness. His integrity and work ethic are impeccable.”
He is committed to making sure he understands your personal goals along with your physical strength and abilities. Most of all, Matt's personal demeanor compliments his professional skills and qualities for an overall positive impact. I am confident he will continue to improve others lifestyle with his positive attitude and expertise in the area of coaching and training!
Hayden Logan
★★★★★
“Matt helped me realize that no matter how hard I worked in the gym, alcohol and poor food choices would never allow me to truly progress. Matt kept me accountable. He always found the wins, even when I fell short.”
Over time, my cravings started to fade, and that is when the results really began to happen. Throughout the year, I became stronger, not just in the gym, but in my food choices and as a leader.
My answer was always the same. Having a coach, being consistent, and truly wanting a better life.
Matt taught me how to fall in love with the process. He helped me find my purpose as a father, a husband, a man of God, and a business owner. My life has changed forever.
After a year of working together, I booked a plane ticket and found him at an event the next day. I needed to tell him face to face how much he had impacted my life. A phone call or message would not have been enough.
SPEAKING & APPEARANCES
BRING THE STORY TO YOUR STAGE.
Matt speaks at addiction recovery events, men's conferences, podcasts, corporate wellness panels, and community organizations. His story covers the real side of addiction, the process of rebuilding, and what it actually takes to change your life when you've hit the bottom.
He's available for keynotes, panel discussions, podcast interviews, and small group sessions. Whether it's a room of five or a stage of five thousand, the message stays the same. You can rebuild. It starts with a decision.